Time management is like driving a car. You know the type of driver who drives really fast, and then brakes really hard so as not to hit the guy in front of him at the red light? Either he is in a big hurry, or he just likes wasting gas and brake pads.
Do you aspire to be the person who sees the stale green light, anticipates the yellow light, removes your foot from the accelerator, and coasts to the red light saving gas and brakes the entire way? You can do that because you have plenty of time to get where you are going because of your time management skills.
We all get overwhelmed from time to time. Things get out of our control sometimes and bite us in the rear when we least expect it. When you’ve used good time management principles, however, you have more flexibility in your schedule, so that when the unexpected happens, you’ll be better able to go with the flow. Here are some ideas to improve your time management skills:
Learn to say no
This is really hard for some people. Once you give it a try, though, you may actually find it very empowering. Saying “no” gives you power over your life. Protect your schedule like your belongings, and do things that you want to do to be a good partner, business owner, and human. Allowing enough time for the things already in your schedule will give you a more enriching experience than when you flit from one event to another, not really experiencing any of them.
Make lists and lists
You’ve heard it said before: something becomes real when you write it down (or say it out loud, even to yourself!) When all of your “to-dos” are swirling around in your head driving you crazy and making you feel like you have more to do than you really do, write them down. Often you’ll find that there aren’t as many as you thought. The satisfaction that you’ll enjoy from crossing them off you list will spur you on to tackling the next item.
Prioritize
Not everything on your list has equal value. Top priorities usually emerge, but if they don’t, try comparing all of your items to each other, one at a time, and see which comes on top. The one with the most votes wins and so on.
Break down big things into little things
What if your top priority is a really huge project, the one that you are afraid to start? We’ve all been there, and if we are going to procrastinate, the huge, difficult project will be the one to put aside. Remember how the financial planners tell you that if you start to save your money in your 20’s, a little each month, you’ll be a millionaire in your 50’s? Why not treat your time, your most precious and finite resource, like you do your finances?
Every big project can be broken down into little projects. Consider the undertaking of redoing a website, which is a big job. Break the project into parts: creating the site map–the all important planning portion–writing each page, writing each section on a page, creating the graphics, and so on. Since it is such a big project, think about working on the part that piques your interest most at the time so that you can continue making progress. Making continuous progress is important to keep momentum, interest, and morale up.
Schedule your time
Sometimes when I have a lot of deadlines hanging over my head, I get anxious, and I don’t perform as well on anything. What takes the pressure off of me is to schedule blocks of time in the course of the day or week when I will tackle the other deadlines. This allows me to really concentrate on the task at hand.
You need to be true to yourself, however. Be careful not to schedule your least favorite job for late in the day, and then blow it off time after time. What a great segue way into our next topic. Let’s stop here so as not to take up too much of your time and continue this with the next post.